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Tuesday, February 28, 2012

玩角色扮演游戏的好处

          角色游戏是幼儿通过想象,创造性地模仿现实生活的活动,它为孩子提供了模仿、再现人与人关系的机会,为他们形成良好的社会交往能力打下基础。   

          在角色游戏中,孩子们通过对现实生活的模仿,再现社会中的人际交往,练习着社会交往的技能,不知不觉中就提升了人际智能。游戏中,孩子们的行为要与所扮演的角色行为相吻合,要把自己放在角色的位置上。

           从角色的角度看待问题,必须学会共同拟定和改变游戏活动的主题。为了使角色游戏成功地继续下去,他们之间就先要协商由谁担任什么角色,使用什么象征性物品及性动作;游戏中常常要改变计划,这就需要共同合作,学会从他人角度看问题,更好地解决人与人之间的交往。同时,在游戏中还可学习如何坚持自己正当的权利、要求,怎样控制自己的言行,以符合游戏规则。因此,角色游戏水平的高低能反映社会交往能力水平的高低及人际智能水平的高低。   

           著名幼儿教育家陈鹤琴先生曾经说过:孩子的知识是从经验中获得的,而孩子的生活本身就是游戏。角色扮演的游戏绝非简单儿戏,它可是孩子认识成人世界的一面镜子。角色扮演游戏能让孩子学习“换位思考”,这对孩子的想象力、观察力、思维能力和解决问题能力,都大有好处。

            在游戏中,孩子能在与周围人和事物的比较中逐渐认识自我,她手中的洋娃娃往往就是她自己,而她自己所扮演的就是她妈妈的角色了,儿童做游戏时喜爱扮演各种角色,它含有浓厚的戏剧性。孩子扮演的角色并不拘泥于一个人,有时在一个游戏中她甚至可以不断出演多种角色。






其实看似简单的“家家酒”游戏,孩子们还可以通过角色扮演游戏,学习基本的餐桌礼仪哦!^^  


自我介绍“自己的角色” :^^

Friday, February 24, 2012

Imaginative Play in Early Childhood: An Overview

Imaginative Play in Early Childhood: An Overview


WHAT DOES THE YOUNG CHILD LEARN FROM PRETEND PLAY?

Whether she is play-acting familiar family scenes, such as driving the car like daddy, or imitating her
mother’s actions, the young child is using her imagination, actions and language to think things through
and to remember what happened in familiar situations. Because this activity is fun, she will become so
engrossed that she is able to think and act it through from beginning to end. She will enjoy pretend play
on her own, making animal noises when she plays with her farmyard animals, and also participating in
“let’s pretend” games with other children, thus developing her social skills. Pretend play will help her
to learn eye-hand coordination, spatial skills, counting, pre-math and pre-reading skills, while allowing
her to safely express her emotions and feelings.

RE-CREATING EXPERIENCES

A child’s first ‘make believe’ games will re-create familiar activities such as going to a restaurant,
driving to the supermarket or feeding and bathing her dolls. Play can help her understand her gender
identity and, as she acts out family activities, she will begin to see her role in the family. Older children
enjoy playing pretend games together, sharing similar experiences. Their play will also involve the
retelling of fictional stories they have heard or seen.

BEING SOMEONE ELSE

The young child is not able to organize complex thoughts, so when he dresses up and
acts as a doctor he is organizing his thoughts and coming to understand the doctor’s role.
Through such play roles he is slowly beginning to think about what it would be like to
be someone else, so that by the time he’s about four-and-a-half he has some
understanding and awareness that other people have their own thoughts and feelings.
This is the beginning of empathy.



LITTLE WORLDS

The young child will use toy people, animals, cars and trains to create “little worlds,”
replaying family events, acting out familiar stories, or making up new situations.    
This is a way of claiming a safe arena where he can safely exercise control and make
(and break) the rules.

MORE THAN PLAY ACTING

Pretending is one of the ways that the child can try to come to terms with something he’s afraid of.    
He may be afraid of monsters or ghosts and ask for the light to be left on at bedtime, but then play
monsters the next day, or run around with a sheet over his head pretending to be a ghost! For young
children, role-play is their way of coming to terms with their fears.

THE IMPORTANCE OF PLAY IN THE YOUNG CHILDS LIFE

Play, including imaginative play, is the child's work. Play prepares the child for adulthood, play teaches
him his place in the world, and play teaches him how to interact with the world. It is play that, in the
child’s early years, lays a strong foundation for the physical, academic, social and emotional wellbeing
that will last a lifetime. A child NEEDS to play to grow.


Imagination and the Pre-School Child
Unlike the simple quality of the younger child’s pretend play, the pre-school child’s
imaginative play is complex and takes many forms. From about the age of about
three-and-a-half/ four to about six-and-a half, the pre-school child's imagination      
is in full play. The ability to imagine and pretend is a crucial part of a child’s
development and to be denied ample opportunity and time to develop these skills    
is to also deny the opportunity to develop the creativity and empathy that form the
best foundation for intellectual and emotional growth.  

PLAYING WITH THE WORLD IN WAYS THAT IT IS NOT!

By the time a child has reached her fourth birthday she has acquired a vast store of knowledge –                
enough that she can take what she knows about her world, stretch her imagination and transform            
the ordinary into the extraordinary. During the summer of her fourth birthday my sister – who had
watched our father clear out a nest of rats from a compost pile, and had also heard her soccer-playing
uncle rhapsodizing about his winning goals – insisted that our garden was inhabited by a team of rats          
who wore yellow soccer shirts and played soccer with her when no-one else was around! Fortunately            
our wise parents allowed and enjoyed her fantasy with her, and eventually the soccer-playing rats
disappeared from our lives and garden. This ability to create a world of her own where she can make  
rules, and control what happens there, is an important part of social and emotional development.

IMAGINARY FRIENDS

Closely related to the imaginary world is the imaginary friend, an important stage of social development
for many preschoolers. At this age, when the child is testing the world and testing the adults in his life,            
an imaginary friend can offer a safe opportunity to feel in charge, perhaps break the rules, and feel        
a measure of control over his own life. For my grandson, his friend first appeared a few months before
his fourth birthday. After a trying day that left both him and his mother exhausted we took an evening
walk together. He suddenly announced that he had a babysitter named Ella, and Ella was a cricket!      
He also told us that Ella had been taking care of him since he was a baby, she allowed him to ride his
big wheels in the street without an adult and with no helmet, let him eat ice-cream whenever he wanted
it, and never sent him to his room when he threw his dinner on the floor!

MAGICAL THINKING

Magical thinking is that thinking that allows the child to believe she can direct
the elements around  her – capture the moon and toss it like a balloon, hold back
the night (and bedtime), or control the tides so the waves won’t wash away the
sand castle on the beach. Magical thinking allows the child to be king or queen      
of an imaginary world, where the laws of nature are suspended and where
wonderful things can happen.                




more info via:http://www.childrennatureandyou.org/Imaginative%20Play%20in%20Early%20Childhood.pdf

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

图画书应该这样读讲座会

彭懿:错过图画书,图画书不再回来 转载中国光明日报社■记者陈香 http://www.gmw.cn 2008-08-06 来源: 中华读书报    

6月28日,福州大戏院。

这个能容纳数千听众的大型剧院里座无虚席,爷爷奶奶、爸爸妈妈,和孩子们静静地等待着,等待着一场有关图画书的演讲,宛如守候着一个盛大的仪式。   

灯光暗下来,音乐响起来,演讲者彭懿先生――他称呼自己为一个命中注定的 旅人,一个徘徊在人妖之间的幻想小说作家,现在,他更是一位图画书的研究专家――先用几十张他在人迹罕至的地方拍摄的精美绝伦的照片,引领听众进入一个梦幻般的童话世界。   

接下来,讲演正式开始。整整三个小时的时间,孩子和家长们大声地笑,小声地流泪,就是没有人走动,连孩子们都没有。每个人都陷入了一场无法脱身的迷人的图画书之旅。   讲演结束了,很多爸爸妈妈都不愿意离开,他们围着彭懿问这问那。他们当中,也许很多人在踏入这个剧场之前,对图画书不过一知半解,甚至完全不了解,但是,当他们离开时,他们中的很多也许已经爱上了图画书。   

而这不过是彭懿关于图画书的一百多场的讲演中,普普通通的一场。   2006年5月,经过7年时间的研究准备,彭懿在二十一世纪出版社推出了《图画书:阅读与经典》,第一次把百年来最具影响力的世界经典图画书集中呈现在中国读者眼前,而后,这位“命中注定的旅人”把自己的足迹洒遍了大江南北,甚至新加坡,“我想告诉他们什么是图画书,为什么要读图画书,怎么读图画书”。北京、上海、广州、大连、杭州、重庆,一百多场的讲演中,每场都是三个小时,有时甚至是六个小时,场场爆满,很多听众只好站在过道里;在大连的一次,由于听众的强烈要求,彭懿连讲了五场;去了一次之后,主办方第二、第三甚至第四次邀请,都是常事……  

一本书做了一百多场演讲,在国内应该是绝无仅有的。这演讲和图书当中有着怎样的奇妙?


Wednesday, February 1, 2012

如何通过玩具发展孩子的语言



语言在孩子的认识活动中起着重要的作用,3-6岁是孩子语言发展的关键时期。如果忽视了对他们进行语言教育,以后进行补偿教育就很困难。玩具市孩子生活中的亲密伴侣,爸爸、妈妈可“将计就计”,充分利用玩具来发展孩子的语言。哪些玩具有助于发展孩子的语言呢?以下四种,可供爸爸妈妈购买玩具时参考:
 
1、 主题玩具。模仿生活中的物体制作的玩具。如:娃娃、房子、家具、炊具、各种交通工具、医院用具等。这类玩具可供孩子玩角色游戏时使用。在角色游戏中,孩子主要使用语言表现游戏的情节和内容,因而能促进孩子语言的发展。如“过家家”的游戏中,“妈妈”一会儿哄孩子睡觉,一会儿给孩子喂奶。游戏中的每一个情节的展开变化,都是通过“妈妈”的语言和动作表现出来的。
 
2、 表演玩具。指孩子表演故事所用的玩具。如头饰、面具、木偶、桌面表演的形象玩具等。这类玩具可供孩子开展表演游戏,对孩子语言的发展有突出的作用。故事中生动、优美的语言,特别能锻炼孩子的口头表达能力。孩子在表演过程中要运用作品中的语言,掌握正确的语言,富有创造性的符合角色性格特征的语调和表情。在此基础上,爸爸妈妈还可启发孩子自编自演故事。这都有助于提高孩子的口语表达能力。
 
3、 结构玩具。包括由基本几何形体构成的大、中、小型的成套继母、各种积塑块、积塑片、胶粒玩具等。孩子可用这类玩具进行各种构造活动。如用积木拼搭房屋、公园;用积塑片插接家具、车辆等。在构造活动中,爸爸妈妈可以有意识地发展孩子的语言,如构建前,可帮助孩子构思,让孩子说出要构造的物体;构造后,让孩子讲自己建构物体的过程和方法。既可提高孩子的口语表达能力,又可促进结构游戏水平的提高。
 
4、 图片型的智力游戏玩具。它是指以日用品、交通工具、蔬菜、水果、动物、植物等为内容的成套图片。这类玩具可供孩子开展配对、比较等游戏活动。如配对游戏:把不同类的图片打乱,分发给三至四人,个人拿着图片(图片的背面向外)。如果发现有同类的便可抽出放在桌上,以后依次向邻近的人抽一张图片,抽到同类的即拿出放在桌上,同时说出图片上物体的名称或简单特征。以图片先脱手者为胜。这类游戏活动,既可帮助孩子丰富常识知识,也有利于发展孩子的比较、分类能力和口语表达能力。
 
以上四类玩具尤其适合4-6岁的孩子玩耍,爸爸妈妈也可为3-4岁的孩子准备这些玩具,但是玩耍时要求应简单并给予适当的指导。当然这些玩具不能完全靠购买,爸爸妈妈要根据孩子开展游戏的需要,充分利用废旧物和自然物自制一些玩具,并最好让孩子参与制作。既可提高孩子的手脑并用能力又可培养孩子的勤俭节约的好品德。

两至三岁的心理特征


当孩子两三岁的时候,出现了最初的自我概念,开始出现给我我要我会我自己来等自我独立意向,如果这时幼儿的独立活动要求得到满足和成人的支持,将开始建立自我肯定情感,相反则容易产生退缩行为。大多数活动,包括学习,对于幼儿来说都是新鲜而有趣的,那么厌学情绪是怎么产生的呢?这很可能是成人喜欢以简单的命令使然,孩子容易因此对劳动和学习产生对立情绪或厌恶心理。-
  美国心理学家曾对1500位儿童进行长期追踪观察,30年后发现20%的人没有取得什么成就。与其中成就最大的20%的人对比,发现最显著的差异并不在智力方面,而在于个性品质不同。成就卓著者都是有坚强毅力、独立性和勇往直前等个性品质的人。可见孩子的独立品格对成长和成材是何等重要。
  独立性是指一个人独立分析和解决问题的能力,它是社会生存及进行创造性活动必备的心理品质。幼教专家指出,生存教育的根本在于培养独立性,包括独立意识和独立能力,重点培养自理生活能力。独立性的培养必须从小抓起。
  2―3岁幼儿身心发展看独立性的表现
  一是,要求摆脱成人控制
  2―3岁幼儿自我意识开始萌芽,言语和动作的发展迅速,对周围世界的认知范围扩大。他们喜欢到处看到处摸索,不要成人抱着,甚至不愿让人拉着手走路。他们已经能表达自己的意愿,对成人要他干的事,往往回答。对自己要干的事又说:我会,我自己来。
  二是,由于手脚动作还不十分协调,走或跑容易跌倒,用杯喝水会泼翻,用勺吃饭会洒在身上。
这些现象通常被认为不听话
  三是,渴望与同龄伙伴交往。交往是幼儿的一种发展性需要,2-3岁的独生子女尤其明显。他们特别喜欢与邻里的小孩子玩,甚至会说没人陪我玩,没劲等。而父母往往以不放心、不安全为由限制他的交往。
  四是,2-3岁的幼儿对自已有点会但还不熟练的事情最感兴趣,喜欢自己反复做,如反复摆弄某一类玩具,重复进行一种游戏等。
  家庭是培养幼儿独立性的首要场所
  任何一个孩子,无论是独生还是非独生,都是由于父母的教育和环境的影响,才形成了不同的人格品质和能力的。独立性同样不是与生俱来或自然形成的,而是后天塑造的结果。
  首先,珍惜幼儿自我独立性意向
  当孩子二三岁的时候,出现了最初的自我概念,以第一人称称呼自己,开始出现给我我要我会我自己来等自我独立性意向。心理学家指出:当幼儿的独立活动的要求得到某种满足或受到成人支持时,幼儿就表现出得意、高兴,出现自尊自豪等最初的自我肯定的情感和态度,否则就出现否定的情感和态度。因此,我们必须十分珍惜幼儿的独立性意向,给予热情鼓励和支持,使独立性不断发展。
  父母要根据孩子独立性的表现,抓住2-3岁这个关键时期,因势利导地培养其生活自理能力。自己的事自己做,包括用杯喝水、用勺吃饭、小便、穿鞋袜、收拾玩具等。若错过时机,形成依赖和懒惰的习惯,改正就难了。
  其次,不要过度保护孩子
  在欧美国家父母非常重视孩子独立性的培养,推崇个人奋斗、而不是依赖父母和其他人,他们主张从小就培养孩子的独立意识。孩子一出生就让他独宿一室,极少与父母同住。孩子刚学走路时,跌倒了,让他自己爬起来。
  在我国,目前独生子女越来越多,往往导致父母对孩子过度珍爱,这就产生了过度保护和过多限制的问题。为了安全和其他原故,很少给1岁内的孩子提供练习坐、爬、站立、行走的机会。孩子醒着时经常抱在怀里,或经常让他们躺在床上,或坐、站在带围栏的小床里。这种过度保护和过多限制实际上剥夺了孩子主动探索和认识外部世界的机会,阻碍了他们的心理发展。父母应了解幼儿心理发展特点,不要压抑幼儿独立性活动意向,解放他们的手脚,让他们做一些力所能及的事,培养他们的独立自主性,为形成良好个性打好基础。
  再次,采用适当的教育方式
  注意对孩子说话的口气和方式,要认真听孩子讲话,使孩子感到你在尊重他。孩子吃饭不要硬逼,让孩子做事尽量不用命令的口吻。不要当众斥责孩子不争气笨蛋没出息等,这样会深深伤害孩子的自尊心。以平等的态度对待孩子,尊重孩子的人格,并非是娇惯孩子。事实证明:受到父母充分尊重的孩子,大多与父母非常合作,待人友善,懂礼貌,举止大方,自我独立意识强,心理学家认为这是孩子受到应有尊重的良好反应。
  民主型教养方式有利于孩子独立性的培养,家长不可以将自己的观点和要求强加给孩子,剥夺孩子独立解决问题和自我发展的机会。
  另外,从兴趣上培养
  让孩子们做任何事情都要避免简单的命令,防止他们对劳动产生对立情绪或厌恶心理。幼儿对游戏活动有强烈的兴趣,让幼儿做些象征性的劳动时,要尽量游戏化,这样他们就会以极大的兴趣积极参加,如果能经常地坚持训练,他们就会逐步养成热爱劳动的习惯。独立性和勤劳、不畏艰苦是密不可分的,不爱劳动,害怕艰苦,怎么能够坚持独立性和自主性呢。




Via psytopic.com